Dear Donut dishes some of the best, cut-to-the-chase advice. She’s always been very helpful with my questions, and she’s never afraid to tell it like it is — but not in a mean way, like a former employer of mine.

That said, this line cuts to the bone:

You are 42, and yet you seem to have preserved the romantic outlook of an adolescent.

Ouch! And yet somehow, she manges to turn it around, and make it a pretty positive response. Read it yourself and see.