Remember this post? Well, a year and a half has passed, and I need to update.
Here are four more things I’m tired of seeing on blogs. Same disclaimer as last time: don’t go getting all offended if you’re guilty of one of the peeves listed below. Rather, just think about how much happier your readers would be (ok: how much happier I would be) if you did a little switcharoo.
1. Bloggers who get published elsewhere and abandon their blogs
I know that it’s exciting that your writing is getting published, but I wish it didn’t mean the end of your witty takes on daily life. Being published is a crap excuse for not blogging. Look at me! I’ve been writing AND blogging for years. Just because you get your words in print doesn’t mean you can abandon your faithful readers! WE MADE YOU! If you can’t do both, at least do us all the favor of replacing your blog with a simple portfolio. It’ll clear up a lot of confusion.
2. “Letter to an inanimate object” Posts
Here’s an example of what I mean:
Dear Last Night’s Diarrhea Attack,
Next time, please warn me first.Thanks,
Your friend Ariel
This technique was moderately funny the first dozen or so times, but its punch has been negated by gross overuse. It’s become a tired little tool, and should be left to rust out in the shed.
3. Cooking posts with no recipes
If you’re going to go on and on about how you made that amazing glazed pear dish with the orange/mango/lentil chutney on the side, the least you can do is give us the recipe. Otherwise, it just sort of sounds like bragging. Sorry.
4. Lack of paragraph breaks
Long posts need ample paragraph breaks. Especially with copy on the web, if it’s more than about ten lines of text, eyes glaze over. I think technically, it’s suppoesd to be even less than that, but I’m forgiving…until it gets to a whole screen that’s a solid block of text and I can’t focus on it.
Runners up:
• Periods. After. Each. Word.
• Unfinished stories
• Excessive provincialism
That said, I’m keeping my eyes open for some new daily reading. Funny as hell? Twisted? Frequently updated? Remarkably written? Easy-to-read layout? Hilarious baby stories? Clue me in, people.
Hey there. I'm Ariel Meadow Stallings, a native Seattleite who's written my way up and down the Left Coast. Electrolicious is where I post daily randomata, but I also write for a living. My first book, Offbeat Bride, was published last year.
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the mighty jimbo
November 18th, 2003 at 11:54 am
ok, i admit for the first year of my blog, i did a lot of short posts sans breaks. kinda of a style thing based on how blogger was organized. i like to think my MT posts are way better though.
but probably not as funny.
personally, i’m sick to death with quizillas. they are the dancing hamsters of bloggerdom.
Ariel
November 18th, 2003 at 11:55 am
Yup, quizzes were at the top of my list of peeves LAST year, and it’s amazing to see that they still remain.
Vicki Smith AKA CalGal
November 18th, 2003 at 1:02 pm
I’m not a quizilla fan, but I do understand their popularity in the world of social bloggers–you know what I mean, the groups of people (mostly women I think) that blog and read other people’s blogs, but mostly those other people are their friends and the trading of quiziall results reinforces their friendship, or at least their connection with each other.
Lousy paragraphing drives me nuts. And I do enjoy, and sometimes deliver, a good laugh.
Maggie
November 18th, 2003 at 1:10 pm
Whew! I guess I’m doing OK. I still consider myself a newbie to blogging and since you, dear Ariel, were the #1 inspiration, I take your technical opinions to heart. Thanks for the pointers!
tracy
November 18th, 2003 at 1:34 pm
Quizilla is for Livejournals and stuff like that… But for a serious blogger? NO NO NO. No.
As for the letter thing… I , uh, did that today. (And have before.) But they’re letters to real people that actually exist!
Ehh. I’m lame. I admit it.
paisley
November 18th, 2003 at 2:34 pm
i like #2 most of the time..
i,myself , sure am onslaught of No-No’s in the world of Ariel . (many others also , i’d guess)
which im sure is directly related to my lack of having a link on your sidebar now or ever ..
i love periods!
i spell for shit
and
a zillion other things
isn’t this comment proof enough of that..
Ariel
November 18th, 2003 at 3:12 pm
Ah, Paisley: thank you for reminding me that I’ve been meaning to remove my blogroll from the sidebar.
Done.
paisley
November 18th, 2003 at 3:46 pm
your welcome, always glad to help!
although , as not to assume why, why?
Ariel
November 18th, 2003 at 4:37 pm
Why? Because the blogroll been a constant source of friction with other people. Unlike many other folks out there, my links list has reflected one thing only: who I read on a daily basis. People (as evidence by your comment, and many others I’ve received through the years) seem to take it personally when they’re not linked. Bloggers who I unlink sent me sad emails wondering if they’d upset me (answer: they hadn’t, I just wasn’t reading their blog as often). It’s simply not worth the grief. I’d rather not have a list than have to constantly justify who’s on it, who’s not, and why.
paisley
November 18th, 2003 at 5:22 pm
i do take it personally , which i hate and is stupid .
i feel alot like you about the freakin’ links list .
i have considered ditching mine.
my feelings are just a slap in the face that im human and sometimes feel things i wish i didn’t - like being on a links list really makes my world a better place -no!
but you know how it is , you want to be liked back as much as you are liking.. and in the blogging world the “link equals like”..
“you’ve made it” so to speak . which is soo stupid but im just being honest about my short comings with actually caring what people think . i don’t do it often but when i do , ugh!! , it sucks
donut
November 18th, 2003 at 8:11 pm
I, for one, am sad to see your blogroll go. I’ve been introduced to a lot of great bloggers that way…
Sarah
November 18th, 2003 at 10:17 pm
ditto donut! I wish to see the blogroll too but completely understand how it could become wierd…and not just for Ariel.
But I do so love the blogroll - it’s like going on an unscheduled road trip. click click and there you are! I don’t just click around aimlessly, I trust your judgement. Can you send me the addresses pretty please????
Philos
November 19th, 2003 at 1:15 am
Hmm, I know a couple blogs I’d highly recommend - perhaps not daily reading, as they aren’t updated quite that often, but they’re generally funny and really well written:
fishsuit
sundry mourning
Heather K.
November 19th, 2003 at 7:50 am
I’m totally hooked on this blog:
http://belledejour-uk.blogspot.com/
leblanc
November 19th, 2003 at 9:42 am
i’m not doing away with my favorites list because it’s my way of keeping bookmarks. if you’re not on the list, it’s because i don’t read you every single day. not because i don’t like you.
i think some people get WAYYYYYY to emotional about being on people’s blogrolls or favorite’s list. for example, the woman who designed my website - she was a “real life” friend of mine - decided she was “sick of me toying with people and moving her up and down the list”. i told her it was because she only posted about once a week, or less, and i keep the ones i read daily at the top. Anyway, she got really pissed and asked me to remove any and all references to her site from my blog and never link to her or list her name again. i mean DAMN! get over it.
but back to the subject at hand - i agree with all your peeves. i don’t read blogs with little or no personal content and who mainly just post links to other things.
as for my recommendations for new daily reading, see the top of my favorites list
paisley
November 19th, 2003 at 10:11 am
“i don’t read blogs with little or no personal content and who mainly just post links to other things.”
i might be rEEally wrong on this one but isn’t posting links to other things what blogging is all about and a journal is for all the personal wordy stuff?
i , personally don’t go by this but i have been given the impression that blogging was all about linking to the web outside.
just curious , im trying to understand the differance:)
simone
November 19th, 2003 at 12:23 pm
Yes! More new reads! (thank you Philos and Heather K)
J
November 19th, 2003 at 1:46 pm
I find it mildly ironic in a “no, it doesn’t really fit, but who cares” kind of way that the author of Philos first link, “Fishsuit,” talks to his brain in the lead post, similar to one of Ariel’s pet peeves.
Oh, the hilarity!
Or not.
::cough::
Philos
November 19th, 2003 at 10:22 pm
Simone - you’re welcome. They’re both friends of mine (though I know Scott, author of fishsuit, better than Linda (Sundry)) and I think they’re both great people, as well as great writers, so I’m happy to promote their blogs.
J - Yes, I was aware of that irony, but really, give him a chance! He’s funny! Really!
Except that his site seems to be down at the moment. Huh. And he hasn’t been updating much because he’s also doing NaNoWriMo, as you’ve seen from that post. But one way or another, that’ll be all over soon enough.
Laurel
November 20th, 2003 at 8:29 am
I would also like to call a moratorium on the use of “heart”. I heart you! I heart this! I heart that! Please no more everybody!
El Gray
November 20th, 2003 at 8:46 am
I wrote an open letter to Wendy’s fast food chain regarding “The Ketchup Situation”. Does that put me on the blacklist? Other than that, I think I’m doin’ A-O-K.
LA-jeff
November 21st, 2003 at 12:11 pm
Exception that makes the periods rule?
best. blog. ever.
It’s become part of blog/boards lexicon already. You’re too late.:)
Katherine
November 23rd, 2003 at 10:17 pm
Favourites on my list include http://sundry.diaryland.com (buttery sense of humour); http://www.thisfish.com - (wry and wonderful); http://fadein.diaryland.com (aspiring screenwriter transplanted to LA from Chicago); http://paulfrankenstein.org (the best trivia in the woild - also a great photographer)