Daily affirmations of a word mercenary
The closing panel at the conference today focused on looking ahead, and the thing that struck me the most was filtered posting, i.e. being able to control exactly who sees which posts. I sincerely hope this is a prediction that comes true because while I love having my public blog, I desperately wish that there could be a logged in version that my real life friends could see. I’ve poked around for MT plug-ins that do this, but none seem to exist. (Then again, development on MT is pretty stagnant these days, sadly.)
Of course, LiveJournal has offered this option for years, which is why I use my LJ account. But very few of my real life friends are on LiveJournal. It’s just not a service used by many late-20 and 30-somethings, but DEAR GOD I wish it were. The ability to create custom filters is such a hugely powerful tool — I have custom filters for all sorts of topics. I love knowing that the stupid meme I post will only be seen by friends who appreciate silly things like that, and posts about my reproductive health are seen only by my un-squeamish lady-friends, and grumbly posts about work are seen only by people who don’t work with me, etc. etc. Filters are incredibly powerful when it comes to feeling safe about what you’re writing — and only LiveJournal uses them. VOX has filters for friends and family, but that’s only two. The sheer versatility of Live Journal’s customizable filters is unparalleled.
Then again, there’s that shortcoming: very few of my real life friends use LiveJournal. If they did? Then it would be a real party. But at 31, I’m already way, way outside the demographic for the site, and I don’t have much faith that I’ll be able to lure anyone over. So I can only hope that filtered posts catch on outside LiveJournal.
Hey there. I'm Ariel Meadow Stallings, a native Seattleite who's written my way up and down the Left Coast. Electrolicious is where I post daily randomata, but I also write for a living. My first book, Offbeat Bride, was published last year.
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Dunc
October 27th, 2006 at 11:16 pm
Hey, I’m almost 28, and there are a ton of folks my age on LJ. Hell, I dragged a bunch of older friends to the site, and many of them still use it today.
However, if you can’t addict your friends, it’s not much use. But I found LJ was great for getting people who never blogged into it; I even ended up closing my ‘real’ blog because the response on and ease of LJ was so much better.
amy
October 28th, 2006 at 4:29 am
Yeah, LJ may skew young, but there are so many people on LJ that it’s not at all hard to find grown-ups. Of my sixty-some friends, at least half are older than I am (27), and I don’t think anyone is younger than 20.
By Jane
October 28th, 2006 at 10:58 am
and I left LJ because i couldn’t find anyone my age (who wasn’t bitching about aging).
ario
October 28th, 2006 at 1:16 pm
there are plenty of folks in that age range on LJ.
The reasons you mention are specifically why I’m on the platform… the filters are essential to me and no one else does them.
Take the Field of Dreams approach… if you use it, they will come!
Ariel
October 28th, 2006 at 3:12 pm
Yeah, Ario, I’ve tried that. I’ve invited lots of friends to LJ, and even with the allure of SUPER SECRET POSTINGS, no one really sticks around. It’s lame.
Laura
October 29th, 2006 at 6:21 am
You know, I’ve paired LJ with Feedwhip and it has been working wonderfully at getting people hooked. When I post something publicly on LJ, my friends, who normally wouldn’t check the site to see if I wrote anything, get an email with my writing. This reminds them that I’ve probably posted other secret-y stuff on LJ, they log in, and everyone is happy!
Vera
October 29th, 2006 at 8:55 am
Ariel, I just added you on LJ (I’m verabug). I don’t post on there, but I’ll read you.
chasmyn
October 29th, 2006 at 11:47 am
I was just having these exact thoughts about LJ and am wondering about switching to using mine. I have one, but only for friending and reading friends’ LJs. I’ve been thinking about how great the filters are and I, too am stuck on the whole “but so many people don’t have LJ accounts” caveat.
Playapixie
October 29th, 2006 at 5:43 pm
Both Tribe.net and Vox.com allow filtered posts. Granted, that’s not much better than using livejournal, but at least in my case, more of my friends are on tribe…
GiGi
October 30th, 2006 at 4:00 pm
As a sometimes blogger, I can relate to your desire for the relative safety of filtered posting. But, as an all-the-time blog reader, I think I’ll be sad when the day comes where I, a complete stranger, can’t stumble upon those “stupid memes” only meant for your friends. Those plate o’ shrimp moments are everything to me.
naomi dagen bloom
November 1st, 2006 at 6:50 am
traveled here via Alternet–interested in how notions of feminism get in the way of self-expression. problem in other areas. interested in filtering issue as elderblogger who finds screens used, particularly Typepad, seem to be way to totally cut off comments. yes, i’ve told them!
perhaps this is another “divide” issue between those of you who have lived lives entirely in the technology and those of us new to it? yours, naomi
Zandria
November 4th, 2006 at 6:11 pm
I just found out that Wordpress offers password-protected posts. I’m on Movable Type right now and I don’t know how difficult it is to switch, but they seem to have some pretty user-friendly features for a tech-unfriendly person like me.
fishd
November 5th, 2006 at 12:10 pm
I’m on LJ and it’s pretty much the only place I write right now - I haven’t posted to my regular domain in almost a year, because I can’t lock anything there and I’ve got stuff going on that makes me want to. Would like to friend you there (I’m pescana) if that’s okay.
I met you at Heather’s Naked Lady thing a month or two ago, although I’ve been reading you for years.
Gabrielle Fine
January 25th, 2007 at 1:11 pm
I’m on lj, and I update regularly. (age:31) Quite a few of my friends are too, which is one of the reasons I use it-so that we can keep tabs on each others’ busy lives. There was some discussion circulating recently about putting your birth year on your info page so that more of the people our age would show up in the stats, to offset the impression everyone has that lj is all teenyboppers.
I’ll go add you, if I can find you. my lj name is elenorerigby.