Daily affirmations of a word mercenary
When I was in New York, I pitched my second book to my lit agent. I’ve spent five weeks of putting off completing the pitch because, well, I’m scared shitless. This book is really cool and I really want to read it … which makes me wonder if I’m actually good enough to write it. Nothing worse than ruining a really cool idea with really poor execution, and this book would be a step-up in skill and research and discipline and would necessitate overcoming writerly lazinesses I’ve had since, oh, forever, highlighting my weaknesses. People: scary. I barely managed to eek out a fluffy 60,000 word memoir/wedding handbook for godsake, and now I’m going to step-up and write a culture critique/media studies/pop-soc book?
I’ll spare you the creative back and forthing I’ve done (maybe I’m burnt out and deserve a break between books? maybe now just isn’t the right time. maybe I need to stop pushing so hard) and just say that tonight I sat down to work on my pitch with baby steps and remind myself that the looming terror of research isn’t work — it’s an awesome excuse to talk to cool people about neat shit.
I’m still scared as hell, but I figure if I’m going to fail, I might as well do it spectacularly while writing about a topic I’m passionate about.
UPDATE: I’m fumbling already! Awesome!
Hey there. I'm Ariel Meadow Stallings, a native Seattleite who's written my way up and down the Left Coast. Electrolicious is where I post daily randomata, but I also write for a living. My first book, Offbeat Bride, is in bookstores now.
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planetheidi
April 23rd, 2007 at 10:04 pm
I can see that. As soon as I finished Lex Talionis, I was anxious to start on a second book. Hell, I can’t even finish the second book cuz I’m already outlining a third and fourth. But of course, the ideas are coming faster than the good writing. Pleah, just go for it and it’ll be good.
jenB
April 23rd, 2007 at 10:52 pm
This is not over sharing. If you ever want to talk someone’s ear off, I am home most afternoons lookin’ fer love. Sometimes having someone to listen helps. At least that is what I have found.
amy
April 24th, 2007 at 2:06 am
As someone in the process of spectacularly failing (or who knows? Maybe I’ll pull it out, in the end), I say go for it. Find out what you’re made of.
brodie
April 24th, 2007 at 8:45 am
do it. no regrets. both feet. baby steps.
ambition is the best thing ever .
oze
April 24th, 2007 at 4:07 pm
I don’t mean to pry, but would a fellowship be of interest to you? We have something called the Katharine Houghton Hepburn fellowship which is meant “to honor the adventurous and bold spirit of the Houghton Hepburn women and to inspire future generations of women to challenge conventions, just as they did.” From reading your blog, I think that this describes what you do fairly well. This fellowship may give you the time, focus and resources to complete your book.
By Jane
April 24th, 2007 at 6:31 pm
Kept thinking about your post all afternoon and how familiar it sounded/felt to me. The fear, the second-guessing disguised as nurturing self-help…. The only thing I have ever found that works for me is what you’re doing: plowing ahead willy nilly. I find that really hackneyed expressions help push me forward through the intense fear. Like this one: “who dares nothing need hope for nothing.” And the best advice I ever got in all things fear-related is: hold your nose, shut your eyes, and jump in.
lisa
April 24th, 2007 at 7:03 pm
It can be scary to take the plunge into the unknown or into something daunting, but the payoff is usually wonderful. I loved your first book, and I believe you definitely have the talent and the mojo to write another, if not many others. Go for it!
christina
April 24th, 2007 at 9:34 pm
“Nothing worse than ruining a really cool idea with really poor execution” - this statement proves you are ready to step it up.
Blinking cursors suck. This is a really lame comparison, but how you feel right now is how I feel about writing academic papers. I stare at the blank Word document…[time lapse]…but once I kick my own ass and just start, it feels good to write about things you know and are in the process of learning. And then I find I’m actually interested. Score, dude.
You’re already wayinterested in the subject - this is the part where you’re down to your waist in the freezing cold pool and the only thing left is sinking your tummy in.
helenjane
April 25th, 2007 at 7:39 am
Somehow, knowing I’m not the only one who will put off something of the ultimate importance because I want to do it justice makes me feel much better.
Man, I’m proud of you.
Shannon
April 25th, 2007 at 10:16 am
Go for it, girl. I was so excited when i first read this, cause i was like, oh yay, i’ll get to be there from the beginning of this one! since last time, you know, OB was already almost in stores. i cant wait till you start witing it. you go girl!
Matt
April 25th, 2007 at 12:02 pm
I know what that’s like! I’m on my third book now - the first two sold so well they gave me a monster deal for a third that’s going to be twice the size of the first two put together, followed just yesterday by a reprint deal for a combined volume of the first two.
And still I’m procrastinating, unable to set a single word down.
KG
April 25th, 2007 at 6:45 pm
One of my muses tells me all the time: “You gotta be in it to win it.” Cheesy, but it works for me.
Then I remember radio DJ Kasey Kasem’s sign-off words: “Keep your feet on the ground, but keep reaching for the stars.” Very cheesy, and also works for me.
May you find your own cheesy words of motivation to help you reach your goal!
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