Daily affirmations of a word mercenary
Tomorrow we officially begin our search for a new home. Dre and I are meeting our realtor (the same one who helped us buy our current house) on Capitol Hill tomorrow morning at 10am and we are looking for a new place to live. Probably a condo on Capitol Hill, but maybe the Central District or Eastlake or Judkins, and maybe a coop or a townhome. We’ll see.
Dre and I are both suuuuper excited about the prospect of getting back in-city. I can carpool to work every day, and Dre will be able to walk or bike to his job. I realize that for some people a 45-minute driving commute is just fine, but for me, the daughter of a Seattle Metro employee who raised me with the values of SOVs being SOBs, it’s been pretty awful. Since I began my driving commute, I’ve gotten two parking tickets and a speeding ticket — “But officer, I always go 50 in this 30!” I’ve also been stressed out and frustrated and guilt-wracked, even though I only do the commute three days a week.
Moving back in-city also means we’ll be back in neighborhoods where you can walk around (!) and run into people we know (!!). This is hugely important to both of us. I love city life, but part of that is the sense of an urban village, where you know your folks. All the folks I know are in-city, and although I made some feeble attempts to meet my most immediate neighbors, nothing ever clicked. Not sure why. I know folks in Columbia City, but that’s still a 10 minute drive. I am sick of driving to see people, to grocery shop, to go to the park, to go out to eat, etc x 500.
Our realtor is optimistic about our house — the french doors in the bedroom and the remodeled bathroom combined with Seattle’s still-strong housing market have her thinking the house has increased about a third in value. We’ll see how it actually pans out — we’ll put the house up for sale once we’ve found a new place we like.
It’s funny: as someone who grew up living in the same house for my entire childhood, I craaave a move every few years. We’ve been in this house for almost two and a half years, and that’s the longest I’ve stayed in one space for … I don’t even know. A decade? Longer? I don’t even know. I think of myself as somewhat of a stability junkie, yet I go changing jobs and homes pretty frequently. Andreas remains the one constant — can you believe this New Years marks our first DECADE together? Jesus.
Anyway, I’m rambling. Tomorrow: we start the hunt! And I’ve already been prepping our house in preparation for selling it later this summer or early fall.
Hey there. I'm Ariel Meadow Stallings, a native Seattleite who's written my way up and down the Left Coast. Electrolicious is where I post daily randomata, but I also write for a living. My first book, Offbeat Bride, was published last year.
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Jeannie
June 29th, 2007 at 2:38 pm
Daaaamn, that’s awesome! I think shopping for a new place to live is the most fun (mainly I thought looking for rentals was fun). I liked imagining what life would be like in the NEW! PLACE! I would foolishly think it would help make me cleaner / more organized etc. Neato for you.
Lisa Marie
June 29th, 2007 at 3:23 pm
Yay Congratulations! I love house hunting as well. We just bought our first place in April and we were lucky enough to find it in our favorite neighborhood in SF, surrounded by friends and restaurants, so I know exactly what you want to get back to (before this we lived in a part of town where we never went out) I’m also like you in that I lived in the same house for years and years growing up and now I love moving, and have changed cities and apartments so often in the past ten years. To that I say, a rolling stone gathers no moss.
Sonya
June 29th, 2007 at 4:08 pm
It is so comforting to know that I am not the only one who is constantly moving. Good luck with the house-hunting…I think it’s very exciting!
Joshua
June 29th, 2007 at 4:51 pm
That means there isn’t much more time for back yard BBQ Bashes on the monster grill!
brodie
June 29th, 2007 at 10:39 pm
cooool. If I were to move up into that area or Portland, I would live IN. We just moved house to much better , less icky, walkable close to downtown house. Love it. And buying a house for less than you just sold one for was a big bonus as well. yipee.
Philos
June 30th, 2007 at 1:02 am
Wow, this surprised me at first, it seems so soon - I didn’t even realize you’d already been there over two years. But it makes complete sense, of course. Good luck (sincere, not sarcastic) in finding a new place.
hello insomnia
June 30th, 2007 at 7:11 am
With quality single-family homes in high demand, you’ll definitely get a buyer soon. We had to go for a townhouse because with our humble price range, the only property we could afford was Hidden Valley Ranch.
Ariel
June 30th, 2007 at 8:05 am
That’s us too, Insomnia — which is why we live in a little single family home about a half block from the illustrious Skyway. Do you know Skyway? If you do, then you know it’s like Hidden Valley Ranch, but with more prostitutes and crackheads.
leandra
June 30th, 2007 at 11:09 am
good luck! i send you lots of intention. i hope you find just the right place : )
Shannon
June 30th, 2007 at 2:16 pm
Good Luck. I looove your house, tho. that seems like a very settle-down-and-start-a-family house. and where will you guys play dog pong? How come you wanna find a place first and then start selling? i would think it would be the other way around.
brodie
June 30th, 2007 at 2:31 pm
shannon, its pretty standard to do a second time home buy by
1. find a new house
2. write on new house with a contingency upon sale of current house (45 days+/-)
3. sell current house and buy new house with released funds
4.????
5. PROFIT!!!
this keeps you safe so you are not obliged to buy new house whilst still owning old house
Ariel
June 30th, 2007 at 2:32 pm
Shannon, our house is great — it’s the location that’s the problem.
This would actually be a hard place for me to have a family. I already feel isolated from my life in the city as it is, and that’s *without* a baby and carseat and all the supplies and a 20+ minute drive to make it feel even farther away. I’d much rather have a family in a neighborhood where I could strap the babe into a sling and walk to the grocery store.
As for Sassafras? She needs the socialization of being around people (she’s shy around strangers) more than she needs the occassional game of dogpong. Plus, that’s what dog parks are for! Seattle has tons.
wendee
June 30th, 2007 at 8:21 pm
When we were looking for our house we found one we really liked/loved just a hop, skip and a jump away from you. We called our agent the day we found it and when she offered to meet us to take a closer look I heard myself say, “I don’t want to go all the way back down there tonight.” (We were home, living on QA at the time.) Wow - if I didn’t want to drive all the way back there to see the house with the realtor, how could I possibly live there?!
We ended up purchasing on Beacon Hill. We do have some friendly hang-out kinds of neighbors (and Laura Azar used to live right across the street for a couple years) so that’s cool, but I really dislike having to drive everywhere. I so miss the days of living blocks from Trader Joes, the gym, the bus line, Highland park and the Seattle Center. And now that I work from home, it’s worse. I feel your pain, but do enjoy having a yard and my studio so a move back to the city isn’t a feasible option anytime soon.
I wish you the best with your hunt / sale.