Unplugged Night was awesome again! I spent the evening brainstorming and drawing and idea-making with my friend Joriel, who was knitting. Andreas, meanwhile, had a bad day and needed to veg, so he hid in the bedroom watching movies and drinking all night. (Poor thing!)
I was also mulling over the nature of distraction, and why it’s almost a comfort to me. In some ways, I almost feel most comfortable if I’m multi-tasking, like there’s a reassurance that I’m busy and productive and doing my thang, even if in actuality I’m spending more time toggling between the things I’m doing than actually getting anything done. This lack of focus results in a weird sense of floating anxiety … that sensation that there’s always something more to do, but I’m not quite sure what it is because I’m too lazy to figure it out. I’d rather just toggle between whatever pops into my mind at the time. I think this is called Continuous Partial Attention. (Thanks to Leif for the link!)
I got a comment that made me realize I should clarify my rules for Unplugged Night.
The things that suck me in are screens and connectivity, so I am avoiding:
I am NOT avoiding:
For anyone else who’s trying unplugging, I suggest you come up with your own lists, based on what triggers you to get sucked down the rabbit hole where you wake up at one point with your cell phone in your hand and are like “Whaaaa? Where have I been for the last two days?”
Hey there. I'm Ariel Meadow Stallings, a native Seattleite who's written my way up and down the Left Coast. Electrolicious is where I post daily randomata, but I also write for a living. My first book, Offbeat Bride, was published last year.
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stef
February 7th, 2008 at 6:05 pm
Wow…I feel exactly the same with the constant need to be flitting between a zillion different things to feel like I’m being productive (even if I’m not.) I’d love to find a solution to help me relax. Maybe unplugging is the answer? I just might need to try…next week.
kirsten
February 8th, 2008 at 6:31 am
I find as I get busier I take on (or make up) more projects. I think it helps me feel like I’m more likely to accomplish something, like if I have so many projects I’m bound to finish one of them and feel a sense of accomplishment. But then, not all of my projects involve being “plugged in.” Unless you count my sewing machine. . .
Leif Hansen
February 8th, 2008 at 3:45 pm
Thanks for continuing to share the stories Ariel. I just blogged about your project over on wonderosity.
As I shared with folks at the workshop, I’ve been trying to do what I call a ‘low tech sabbath’ on sundays for the past few years. And what I’ve found, like you seem to have, is its the ’screen-based technologies’ that are the ones that seem to suck me in and ‘zombify’ me.
There are some obvious social/psychological factors to why many of us have ’screen addiction’, yet I have a hunch that it goes deeper into some actual neurological factors of watching the bright shiny lights and stories. I wrote a paper that was, in part, on those former issues, but haven’t gather enough evidence yet on the latter. The link provided is an interesting read though.
-Leif
megan64
February 8th, 2008 at 10:43 pm
I unplugged last Sunday, and Monday I went through and cut a bunch of blogs from my daily reads tab. Now that I’ve done that I don’t have the same desire to go on that I have. In fact this week I have been on far less than usual. It’s freed up some much needed brain space and even though I’m only sitting when I read, I feel as if I’m moving slower now. Thanks for the great idea. Why did I not try this sooner, it feels good.
Rosie Perera
February 13th, 2008 at 6:37 pm
Good for you! I turn off my computer once a week for a “technology Sabbath” (I’m not addicted to cell phone or DVDs so those don’t need to go). Also, for the past three years, for the 40 days of Lent I have given up all “non-essential Internet use” which includes all the things that are time-wasters for me: Facebook, Scrabulous, blogging and reading others’ blogs, surfing the news, random surfing to learn stuff, Anagrammy.com, etc. I can still buy plane tickets online if I need to, or look up a word online if I’m in the middle of writing an article or something. But nothing just for my own entertainment or to procrastinate. It’s going pretty well so far this year, one week into it. By intentionally breaking the addiction once in a while, I move ever closer to Heidegger’s ideal of “releasement towards technology” which is the state when I’ll be able to take it or leave it, with no compulsion whatsoever.
Markq
June 5th, 2008 at 8:45 pm
To me music is the same sort of mindless anesthetic that the television is, and I would get rid of that, digital or otherwise.
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June 6th, 2008 at 8:29 am
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