Daily affirmations of a word mercenary
This weekend I headed three hours south to Portland, which is sort of the cultural hotspot Seattle was 15 years ago. Portland circa now is filled with fabulous arts and music and great urban planning and public transportation and hot bus boys and great tea shops and relatively affordable housing and it’s always a delight to soak up a city that’s on its way up, instead of one that’s established and coasting and on the cultural decline.
Theoretically I went down for a party where my friend Rara was playing music, but I actually didn’t see that much of Rara and instead there was lots of visiting and socializing and chai and talking and smoking and walking and eating, too.
Dori hosted me, and we were perfectly aligned in our exciting needs for Saturday afternoon: she wanted to dork out on boxes of beads, and I wanted to nap. I appreciate a host who allows narcoleptic guests to curl up with a sleeping bag and make gentle snoring sounds in the middle of the afternoon.
Later, I inadvertently invited like 10 people I didn’t know (including someone’s 11 year old son) over to Dori’s house. Who’s the best guest ever!? “Hi! Nice to be here. Mind if I pass out, and then have some people over?”
The party was hilarious, filled with what Dori called “Space Hippies” and hosted at a well-established New Age church called The Crystal Temple. (Go read that website. Thank me later!) I greatly enjoyed the music I came to see, but ultimately got tired and missed the last quarter of Rara’s set.
There’s no end or point to this story other than this: I drank four different kinds of chai, and ate an amazing brunch at a place called the Tin Shed.
Hey there. I'm Ariel Meadow Stallings, a native Seattleite who's written my way up and down the Left Coast. Electrolicious is where I post daily randomata, but I also write for a living. My first book, Offbeat Bride, was published last year.
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Nancy
February 4th, 2008 at 3:40 am
Now, I REALLY want to go to Portland. Henry and I are thinking of taking a “babymoon” (I swear, that’s what people call it!) and he would love to see Dori again after all these years, though I’m not sure a big pregnant belly could handle a long flight…I smell a family vacation in the future, I think.
Tracey Steele
February 4th, 2008 at 8:50 am
AAAAAARGHHH!
I miss my adopted hometown. I was there for 9 years, from 1990 to 1999…well, for a year or two in Eugene, too. I had to move back to the East Coast for family reasons, and now, for different family reasons, I’m stuck here. Stuck, stuck, stuck.
I want to be back there! Groovy coffee houses! Fantastic music! Books everywhere! Bikes everywhere! Mountains, rivers, roses, and rain. Oooooh, I miss it.
Bether
February 4th, 2008 at 8:52 am
delurking to say…
I moved to Portland six years ago for college and it stuck. I love this place, and its big-city-options with small-town-feel.
The Tin Shed is *fantastic*.
Sounds like a lovely weekend trip.
Sara
February 4th, 2008 at 9:53 am
I love Portland a lot — wish I could get down for more weekend trips! (But I might be moving there in a year to establish residency for graduate school, so here’s hoping!) Glad you had a nice time.
dori
February 4th, 2008 at 10:36 am
BABYMOON??!?? WHAT??!?? henry??!?
*goes digging around the internet* - how’d i miss this?
Nancy
February 4th, 2008 at 11:36 am
hee hee. yeah, dori! henry and i are 4 months preggers!
it’s about time he spawned some little buggers, isn’t it?
kirsten
February 4th, 2008 at 1:16 pm
Holy crap I loved Tea Chai Te (though the name’s not all that catchy). They are so nice and the teas are yummy and warmed by candles! I fell in love with Portland on Alberta between TCT and the Coop.
brodie
February 4th, 2008 at 3:52 pm
How do you inadvertently invite 10 people to a party ?
Ariel
February 4th, 2008 at 10:27 pm
Brodie:
First were my friends Rob & Kara, who were in town from Eugene. They gave me a ride to Dori’s and came in to visit. Then there was my friend Rara, who was in town to play at the party we were all going to. He swung by with HIS chauffeur/friend. Then his musical partner swung by, with HIS carload of people, including a woman and her son. Some of these tertiary guests assumed it was MY house (ie “We’re here with Amani, who knows Rara, who was invited by Ariel … who must live here, right?) and I realized it was all a little odd. I mean, Dori had approved guests, but it almost didn’t even seem like the guests knew each other. Regardless, it was short lived oddness, as we were ALL headed to the same party where Rara was playing music. And thankfully Dori weathered the intrusion like a champ and everyone was fine.
brodie
February 5th, 2008 at 9:36 am
It is funny, since I have small children, I just don’t have these types of interactions anymore. Oddly, I miss them. Even the awkward ones. Guess I’ll just settle for the social awkward interaction that is toddler gym class.
Ariel
February 5th, 2008 at 9:42 am
Brodie, at least three of the people in the room were parents who’d made arrangements for the evening, so I’m not quite sure that I see the connection.
Jim
February 5th, 2008 at 10:20 am
First Rule of Portland…’Don’t talk about Portland.’ Second Rule…’Don’t talk about Portland.’
Esther
February 5th, 2008 at 12:36 pm
I meant to tell you: GO TO NUTSHELL. I haven’t been yet but…for vegan/vegetarian food, it is supposed to be incredible.
brodie
February 5th, 2008 at 1:38 pm
Simply lamenting the lack of complex social interaction in my life, I suppose. I love my kids dearly, but I do sometimes miss large random social gatherings. That’s all.